Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself.

How do you love yourself in the Biblical context?  You’ve worked hard to give yourself a good life. You treat yourself well, and regularly practice self-care. You have healthy self-esteem and a good sense of your worth.  In a kind and congenial way you have set boundaries, moral, financial, physical, and emotional in an ethical way.  You know the limits to which you can take your Saviour with you, so some places or activities you will not go or participate.  You have learned that “No.” is a complete sentence.  You allow the Holy Spirit to guide you in helping others, and being helped.  You pray!